How We Hurt Our

Kids When We Treat

Them Like Grown-Ups 

“The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups”

by Leonard Sax is a compelling examination of modern parenting and its impact on children’s development. Sax argues that the decline in parental authority has led to a range of issues, including increased disrespect toward authority figures, poor self-regulation, and declining academic performance among young people.

Key themes in the book include:
*Transfer of Authority: Sax discusses how the shift in authority from parents to children has resulted in kids valuing their peers’ opinions more than those of their parents.
*Health Consequences: The book highlights the rise in obesity and other health issues among children, which Sax attributes to parents’ inability to enforce healthy habits.
– *Overmedication: Sax explores the trend of overmedicating children for behavioral issues, arguing that it often masks underlying problems rather than addressing them.
-*Cultural Factors: The book examines how American culture, with its emphasis on instant gratification and media influence, undermines parental authority.

Sax provides practical advice for parents on how to reassert their authority, prioritize family time, and guide their children toward meaningful goals. It’s a thought-provoking read that offers valuable insights into the challenges of modern parenting and how to overcome them.

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